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"I was first introduced to Ideal Intimacy on an assignment for Nerve, a magazine I freelance for particularly for a column series titled “I Did it For Science.” I was ambivalent at first; the whole idea of “intimacy coaching” seemed a little too new age for me, and a little out of my comfort zone (even for a sex columnist!). However, I have no regrets. What started out as an article lead turned into one of the most enlightening and empowering experiences I have ever had in my life, and I am forever grateful for meeting Valerie and Bruce.
I came to them as a confused young woman, vulnerable and emotionally wounded from uncomfortable sexual experiences and series of harsh rejection. Like many women in their twentysomethings I was struggling to find confidence in my sexual identity, convinced that I was sexually inadequate. A hopeless case!
Intimacy coaching was the cure I needed to help me overcome these personal obstacles. Through their practice I discovered what had been weighing me down for so long: a deep fear of intimacy. I feared sex and feared showing my sexuality. This was a harsh reality but confronting this truth encouraged me to face my fear, and Valerie and Bruce provided me with the professional and safe environment to do so.
I only took two sessions, but they opened the door to a continuing journey of self-discovery and self-healing. I am rewarded with the empowering knowledge that my sexuality is something that I can completely call my own. Only I can dictate what is right and wrong, and there is nothing more enlivening and stimulating. Sure, thoughts of fear and rejection continue to linger but I feel inspired and encouraged by the knowledge that professional support is out there for those of us who seek to nourish our sexual identities. From there, the truth is simple: only until we can establish a deep self-awareness of our sexual selves - the rawest form of one’s identity and the purest channel of connection - can we open up and lead a more fulfilling life, sexually, creatively and emotionally. Thank you guys J "
-Bianca
"I just want to let you know that [my partner] and I had a wonderful, very spiritual time together [after my session with you], and used all of the things you and Bruce showed me. We moved easily beyond technique and into spirituality.........it was truly amazing, and an impetus to continue and expand our growth."
-SC
"We just want to thank you for meeting with us yesterday and showing us the techniques of Tantra. This is something that the both of us were looking to seek information on. Now we have more ways to please each other than we could ever imagine. We both can't stop thinking about yesterday afternoon and yesterday evening when we got home!!"
-AD
" After meeting with you [my husband] and I practiced the techniques you taught us. Ever since our sex life has been fantastic. I especially have increased sensitivity using the touch exercises and I have longer and stronger orgasms... and so does he. We are better now about asking each other for what we want and giving it to each other." -SB
"First, let me say that my visit was nothing short of OMG! I didn't really know what to expect with Tantra since it is one of those things that is in the unknown. You really opened my eyes and showed me the possibilities to a whole new level of pleasure and self being, I can't thank you enough! Your unselflessness, warmth and genuine love of the art was totally unexpected but appreciated! In short, you are a beautiful, amazing woman with a gift and personality to convey all that is needed with this subject. I can definitely say that having the right teacher makes the whole difference in the world. You opened me up to something that I have been subconsciously looking for, for most of my adult life."
-AC
"I'm so glad that we met you and had a real experience to share with someone who expresses such a high level of care and awareness. Thank you too for showing us new ways to begin, enjoy and end the moments [my wife] and I got to share together. We'll certainly remember the excitement but the teachings you provided about breathing, circular reciprocation and slowing down my touch will stay with us much longer."
-GL
"A week is over now since I came back. I have had a real good time. A lot of things are more lively than before, especially my relationship to others and also to the woman in my life - our sensuality has grown in another dimension."
-PV
"Last night was definitely a wonderful experience for me. I wanted to follow up this morning to let you know how great of a time I had connecting with my entire body. The entire walk after leaving you I was unable to hold back smiling and feeling a sense of completeness that I've never felt before. It was so much better than when I lost my virginity for the first time because every release of energy I've had before our session never gave me that feeling of complete satisfaction. You are an amazing person and I very much look forward to another session with you."
-TD
WOW!!! That was amazing!!! You have an amazingly naturing touch and voice and I came back home SOOOOOO relaxed and I have this renewed sense of self-confidence in myself and my sensual side. I have been so closed up for months and it's like I let out month and months of bottled up expressions and you were able to guide me as my Tantra teacher to get there. You are a diamond and an Angel and I thank you so much for offering these sessions because you are my doctor who helps me let go of my inhibitions and connect my soul, my heart, and my thoughts to my feelings and my SENSULALITY!
THANK YOU!!! and I'll be seeing you SOON!
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